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Nephi 18:15, 18-19 Verily, verily, I say
unto you, ye must watch and pray always, lest ye be tempted by the devil, and
ye be led away captive by him. Behold, verily, verily, I say unto you, ye must
watch and pray always lest ye enter into temptation; for Satan desireth to have
you, that he may sift you as wheat. Therefore ye must always pray unto the
Father in my name;
The Savior is the only one who ever lived who was perfectly
righteous. Even though he was tempted in
all the same ways that we are, he never gave in, and he faithfully followed His
Father in all things, and he lived a wholly sinless life (see Hebrews 4:14-15). This makes Christ the unopposed champion of
resisting temptation. Not only do we
have his powerful example of obedience to guide us, but he also left us valuable
teachings concerning how best to resist temptation and how to avoid it when possible. Given Christ’s sinless life
and example, it makes sense to look carefully at the things he taught about
resisting temptation. Namely, he exhorted
His disciples to “watch and pray always lest ye enter into temptation.”
Why is it that constant prayer so effective a remedy in
staving off temptation? One answer has to
do with the fact that the devil never sleeps.
He and his angels have nothing better to do than to try to lead you
astray, and he is obsessed with your destruction. I don’t know what it feels like to be sifted
as wheat, but if Satan wants to do it to you, you can bet it’s not pleasant. The only way to combat an enemy that never
rests is to turn to God, who will never rest in providing and guiding us in the
way to joy and salvation. God is more
powerful than the devil, and his voice can dispel the seductive tendrils of
temptation. We need Him in our lives,
and prayer is the way for us to access God and His power. That is why the devil works so hard to get us
to neglect the habit and practice of prayer in our lives.
2 Nephi 32:8-9 And
now, my beloved brethren, I perceive that ye ponder still in your hearts; and
it grieveth me that I must speak concerning this thing. For if ye would hearken
unto the Spirit which teacheth a man to pray, ye would know that ye must pray;
for the evil spirit teacheth not a man to pray, but teacheth him that he must
not pray. But behold, I say unto you that ye must pray always, and not faint;
that ye must not perform any thing unto the Lord save in the first place ye
shall pray unto the Father in the name of Christ, that he will consecrate thy
performance unto thee, that thy performance may be for the welfare of thy soul.
With this in mind, it might seem like a perfectly natural
thing for Christ to exhort the Nephites to pray to avoid temptation, but why
did he also tell them to watch? What did
he ask them to watch, and what were they supposed to be watching for? King Benjamin explained that we need to be
watching our own selves, and our thoughts, words, and deeds.
Mosiah 4:29-30 And
finally, I cannot tell you all the things whereby ye may commit sin; for there
are divers ways and means, even so many that I cannot number them. But this
much I can tell you, that if ye do not watch yourselves, and your thoughts, and
your words, and your deeds, and observe the commandments of God, and continue
in the faith of what ye have heard concerning the coming of our Lord, even unto
the end of your lives, ye must perish. And now, O man, remember, and perish
not.
The devil is not all-powerful; he can’t force anyone to sin,
but he doesn’t need to because we are perfectly capable of finding our own way
to temptation and sin without him. In
other words, nobody can honestly say that “the devil made me do it!” We are
each accountable for our own actions and choices.
Accordingly, we need to be self-aware, and vigilant in taking stock of our own behavior. King Benjamin instructs us to “observe the commandments of God” in part because commandments help to provide an objective standard by which we can measure our lives and our behavior. If our thoughts and behavior are not in line with God’s commandments, then we need to be aware enough and honest enough with ourselves to take steps to make corrections.
“No temptation, no pressure, no enticing can overcome us
unless we allow such. If we make the wrong choice, we have no one to blame but
ourselves” (Thomas S. Monson, “The Three Rs of Choice,” Ensign, Nov. 2010).
Accordingly, we need to be self-aware, and vigilant in taking stock of our own behavior. King Benjamin instructs us to “observe the commandments of God” in part because commandments help to provide an objective standard by which we can measure our lives and our behavior. If our thoughts and behavior are not in line with God’s commandments, then we need to be aware enough and honest enough with ourselves to take steps to make corrections.
While those corrections generally take the form of
repentance, part of sincere repentance is looking at where we went wrong, and
taking steps to avoid the situation or circumstances that led us to stray from
God’s word in the first place. Simply
put, a person who truly seeks to repent and grow closer to God through
obedience will not only leave a certain sin behind, but he/she will also
examine their past habits and behavior and make changes to avoid being tempted
to commit that sin in the future.
Changing habits which have been a long time in the making
will take a lot of work, and will also require us to watch ourselves carefully
to avoid falling into old patterns and encountering old temptations. That is
why it is so important to watch, as well as to pray, in order to avoid entering
into temptation. This whole process will
require us to examine ourselves regularly, and make corrections as
necessary. The sacrament is a formal way
to do this activity, however we ought to be making periodic self-evaluations
and correction all the time, and not just on Sunday.
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1 Corinthians 10:13 There hath no temptation taken you but such
as is common to man: but God is faithful, who will not suffer you to be tempted
above that ye are able; but will with the temptation also make a way to escape,
that ye may be able to bear it.
Satan likes to make us feel like we are completely
alone. It is one of the reasons why he
works so hard to cut us off from God by getting us to forget to pray. If we are tempted to do something we
shouldn’t it is to his benefit to convince us that nobody else has ever faced
such temptation, and to encourage us to feel isolated and unworthy. Paul taught us the important truth that
everyone is tempted as some point in their lives, and nobody is alone in being
tempted. Being tempted, in and of itself,
doesn’t make you a bad person; after all, even Jesus was tempted. The trick is to follow Christ’s example in
resisting our temptations.
Paul teaches another crucial truth here: there is no
temptation so great that you or I cannot choose to overcome it. God sincerely desires that you and I learn to
overcome and outgrow our temptations, and he is deeply committed to helping
everyone to resist giving in to sin.
Accordingly, God will help us to escape temptation, and/or to better
bear up under those temptations, if we will commit to faithfully following His
guidance. This requires some basic
common sense on our part though.
Remember that the
Savior didn’t just warn us about temptation; He expressly warned us against entering into temptation. It is not reasonable to
expect God to help us to avoid temptation if we knowingly went somewhere, or
did something, or spent time with people, which place us in the way of
temptation. Sometimes the way to escape
temptation which God provides comes before the actual moment in which the specific
temptation occurs.
If you are a recovering alcoholic, it might be a good idea
to find friends who will help you to keep your commitment to stop drinking,
rather than questioning the validity of your choice to change. If you know that there is a liquor store or a
bar on your way home from work, you ought to consider taking a different street
from now on. If you are trying to
overcome pornography use or addiction, don’t place yourself in situations in
which you know you will be tempted to act out.
If you tend to be tempted by online pornography, use the computer in an
open and well-trafficked area of the house.
Avoid idle browsing or surfing online.
Set time limits for computer use.
The point is that the Lord often provides a number of ways for us to
avoid temptation before it ever becomes an issue, but this will require us to
be active and vigilant in choosing to avoid situations in which temptation may
be augmented.
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Peter 2:9 The Lord knoweth how to
deliver the godly out of temptations, and to reserve the unjust unto the day of
judgment to be punished:
Notice that Peter teaches that the Lord knows how to deliver
the GODLY out of temptation. It is
important to surround ourselves with people, and to spend time in places and
environments, and to only consume media that invites the presence of the Holy
Ghost, and which will help us to become more like God both in the short run and
in the eternal sense. There is a lot
that we can do to preemptively avoid temptation, but we need to actively choose
righteousness and godliness in our thoughts, words, deeds, as well as in our
choice of environment and companions. We
must earnestly seek after those things which will help us to obey God and avoid
temptation, while actively avoiding those things which detract from the Spirit
and which make resisting temptation more difficult. It wasn’t just nice sentiment when Joseph
Smith declared that a central article of our faith is that:
Articles of Faith 1:13
We believe in being honest, true, chaste, benevolent, virtuous, and in
doing good to all men; indeed, we may say that we follow the admonition of
Paul—We believe all things, we hope all things, we have endured many things,
and hope to be able to endure all things. If there is anything virtuous,
lovely, or of good report or praiseworthy, we seek after these things.
Sometimes, through no fault of our own, we may find
ourselves in an unexpected situation in which our morals or even our virtue may be
threatened. In cases such as these it is
best to follow the example of Joseph, who fled in haste from the clutches of
Potiphar’s wife. If you find yourself in
a situation in which you know you could be tempted to sin, then get out, and
get out now. Don’t wait, and don’t stop
to worry about what other people might think of you. Worry more about what the Lord thinks of you,
and about being able to look yourself in the eye when you look in the mirror.
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Hebrews
12:4 Ye have not yet resisted unto blood,
striving against sin.
James 4:7 But he giveth more grace. Wherefore he saith, God
resisteth the proud, but giveth grace unto the humble. Submit yourselves
therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.
When Paul reminded us that we have not yet resisted unto
blood, striving unto sin, he was trying to teach us a principle that should
change the way you look at temptation and the urge to sin. As James says, if you will resist the devil,
he’ll flee from you. Refusing to give in
to temptation is the only way for us to develop the integrity and strength of character
that we need to conquer sin and the devil. However, don’t fall into the trap of
thinking that you are strong enough to do it all on your own.
It is normal to feel overwhelmed at times by temptation, and
the urge to give up and give in may seem like an easy and enticing
alternative. When you rely only on your
own willpower to resist temptation, it can be easy to feel discouraged and like
you just aren’t trying hard enough. Many who struggle with sin and temptation think
that they just need to try harder, or pray harder, or read more scriptures, and
when they fail they become discouraged and they give up. Satan knows that good people are going to
give it their all when it comes to resisting the temptation to sin, and he is
counting on us to fall into his trap by trying to do it all by ourselves until
we are too exhausted to resist anymore.
Don’t give up! If you
feel like you can’t fight anymore, turn to the Savior. If you think you have to do it all by yourself,
you are doing it wrong! The Savior gave
himself for you so that you don't have to be alone. Because of the atonement, you can overcome
sin in your own life, through the power of His grace. Jesus Christ
meant what he said when he invited all to:
Matthew 11:28-30 Come
unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take
my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye
shall find rest unto your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.
It is only through the power that comes from Jesus Christ,
through his atonement and His gospel, that we can overcome our burdens,
including temptation. Without him we
would be quickly overwhelmed.
If you and I are going to beat temptation, we will have to
turn ourselves over wholly to the Savior. This isn’t something that we can do
halfway. Nor should we feel like Christ
is just there to tip us over the edge after we get ourselves most of the way
there. “Jesus doesn’t make up the
difference. Jesus makes all the difference. Grace is not about filling gaps. It
is about filling us.” (Brad Wilcox, "His Grace Is Sufficient," BYU Devotional, July 12, 2011).
One of the blessings of the atonement of Jesus Christ is
that we can rely on the power of Christ’s grace to help us overcome any number
of things that might overwhelm us otherwise, temptation being chief among those
things. It takes humility to rely on
someone else to do something that we can’t do on our own. It also takes humility to admit that we are
flawed and to set aside our pride so we can submit ourselves to God’s will. It takes humility to admit that we did
something wrong, and take the steps needed to repent.
James 4:7 But he giveth more grace. Wherefore he saith, God
resisteth the proud, but giveth grace unto the humble. Submit yourselves
therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.
God wants to bless us with His grace to help us resist the
devil, but our pride gets in the way. Only those who choose to humble themselves
and submit themselves to God will enjoy the full power of God’s grace. If we choose to learn the right lessons from
them, our weakness will be compensated for by the power of Christ’s grace,
which is sufficient to help us to overcome the worst that Satan can throw at
us.
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Corinthians 12:7-9 And lest I should be
exalted above measure through the abundance of the revelations, there was given
to me a thorn in the flesh, the messenger of Satan to buffet me, lest I should
be exalted above measure. For this thing I besought the Lord thrice, that it
might depart from me. And he said unto me, My grace is sufficient for thee: for
my strength is made perfect in weakness. Most gladly therefore will I rather
glory in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me.
Take courage in the knowledge that even the great apostle
Paul was afflicted with his own imperfections.
We don’t know precisely what Paul’s thorn in the flesh was, but it is
likely that he was tempted just like everyone else. Everyone will, at one time or another in
their life, find themselves buffeted by the messenger of Satan. Each person is unique, and as such they might
be tempted in different ways, but each of us has the same power to turn to
Christ and to rely on His strength to overcome our temptations.
When you feel weak, and you are faced with temptations that seem
too powerful to overcome, remember that you are not expected to face them
alone. The most important reason why
Jesus Christ taught us over and over again that we need to pray always to
overcome temptation is because prayer is the best way to access the power of
his atonement, and the sweet power of His grace to help us to do more than we
can do on our own. Jesus Christ died so
that we can each choose to set aside “lay aside every weight, and the sin which
doth so easily beset us,” and turn ourselves over wholly to Christ.
Hebrews 12:1-2 Wherefore
seeing we also are compassed about with so great a cloud of witnesses, let us
lay aside every weight, and the sin which doth so easily beset us, and let us
run with patience the race that is set before us, Looking unto Jesus the author
and finisher of our faith; who for the joy that was set before him endured the
cross, despising the shame, and is set down at the right hand of the throne of
God.
We shouldn’t expect to be perfect right away, but we ought
to be diligent, “and… run with patience the race that is set before us.” If we will follow Christ’s example in living
the gospel and putting off all ungodliness, and learn to rely on the sustaining
power of His grace, over time we will be born again and sanctified through the
power of the Holy Spirit and the grace and blood of Jesus Christ (see Moroni
10:34). There will be no temptation
strong enough to move us, and we will find that we cannot look upon sin without
abhorrence (see Alma 13:12). When we are
born of God through the spirit, temptation will no longer have any power over
us.
1 John 3:9 Whosoever
is born of God doth not commit sin; for his seed remaineth in him: and he
cannot sin, because he is born of God.
1 John 5: For
whatsoever is born of God overcometh the world: and this is the victory that
overcometh the world, even our faith. We
know that whosoever is born of God sinneth not; but he that is begotten of God
keepeth himself, and that wicked one toucheth him not.
I am working and looking forward steadfastly and with all my
heart for the day when I can grow out of sin and temptation. I am grateful for the grace which my savior
offers me, and the power which he gives me to overcome those temptations which
at times can seem overwhelming. I
promise that if you will turn yourself wholly over to the Savior, through
obedience to the principles and ordinances of the gospel, you too can rely on
him to make you better than you are on your own. Jesus Christ has the power to help you to
overcome temptation and forsake sin, so you can more fully embrace
righteousness, which will bring you unimaginable joy.
Just found this while looking for scriptures about resisting temptation for a family night lesson. Amazing insights. Thank you for your post.
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